4 THINGS That TURN ON Girls (RAW TRUTH)

Some girls are so turned on by a man that they would do anything to please him. Before we go into it, I want you to know that this post will not be politically correct.

What turns girls on is not something that Society talks about; instead, they teach you all the wrong things that only sound nice but never actually work with girls.

We will go over four things that turn girls on.

#1 Status

Here is the hard reality: attraction for girls is not a choice. If you are a guy without any status, you will come across a lot of girls in life that have an arrogant attitude or don’t even notice your existence at all.

Even if she wants to be attracted to you, if everything in her subconscious mind tells her that you are a nobody, she will not be attracted to you. This is why you will see rappers in our society go from nothing to being worshipped like a God by millions of girls.

The guy could be a regular man or even a below average looking man that’s broke and out of shape, it doesn’t matter. The status elevates him and makes him attractive to girls.

These girls will call him the most handsome man, while they would not look at him for a second when he didn’t have that status. If you understand this, you should not become bitter or angry at female nature.

Instead you should know that girl that used to be arrogant towards you can change their behaviors and become sweet and submissive if they want you.

They can’t help but get turned on by certain types of men, now I’m not saying you need to become a rapper or become famous to turn girls on. Status comes in all social areas of life.

A girl walks in a boxing gym she will quickly pick upon the man with the most status in that zone subconsciously. She will notice how other girls and other men treat him and that will make him interesting.

Anyone can get some status and climb the social hierarchy. The internet did change the game, If you want to take status to a serious level, you should use the internet to your advantage.

#2 Dominance

Most girls are attracted to sexually dominant partners. There are studies that show what the majority of women fantasize about, when it comes to sexual activity: “rough dominance”.

Most of the fantasies women have cannot be discussed on Medium as this Blog would get deleted, just to know that women love dominant men both in the bedroom and in life.

Most guys you see in the modern world discuss everything with their girl they ask her what she wants to do and what her opinion is on everything.

The truth is that girls don’t want to make all the decisions, they want a strong man that can lead the way. Nowadays, you will see guys that can’t even decide what they want to eat, A failure!

It should take no longer than 30 seconds to decide what you want to eat. The truth is that dominance is something you will find more in alpha males.

There are a lot of fake alpha males out there that have tarnished the term alpha male but make no mistake about it. Real outfits will always exist, and it is those, men that have girls chasing them and other men respecting them.

#3 The abundance Mindset

Most men turn women away because of one deadly flaw: the scarcity mindset.

This means you believe that opportunities for love and sex are rare. Many guys are needy because of this mentality.

Nothing about the scarcity mindset is attractive to girls. No said girl is irreplaceable. There are thousands of beautiful women out there in every city.

He isn’t really affected by the loss of a girl he just met; he won’t chase her, thinking she is more special than others; he won’t put her on a pedestal like a guy with a scarcity mindset does.

When he meets an attractive woman, he won’t look at her like she is some kind of goddess to be admired; he will see her as she really is just a normal person and treat her accordingly.

If you have an abundance of options with women, then you won’t really care if you can have sex with any particular woman, Amanda, Sarah and Jessica.

The guys with the abundance mentality, might come across as a little bit cocky or overconfident, but the reality is that this is a huge turn-on for women; they like to know that the man they are with could get other women; this makes the man more valuable in her eyes, and she can’t help but respect it.

Now, it is hard to have an abundance mindset when you don’t have an abundance of women, but you should still carry yourself with that mindset, both with money and women.

When you treat them as a rare source and act needy, they will become hard to obtain, but when you carry yourself like you can always get more, more will come to you.

#4 Chase Your Purpose

Your mission should always come above all else, girls.

Imagine a soldier going off to war. The soldier spends the day before he goes with his wife. The next morning comes, they eat breakfast together, and the wife asks him if he really needs to go.

She tells him how she will miss him and wants him to stay and watch movies together. The soldier thinks about it for a second and suddenly starts unpacking his bags. The wife asks him what he’s doing, and he tells her he changed his mind he doesn’t want to go to war and, would rather stay at home with her, the wife is happy in the moment, but she loses respect and attractiveness for him.

Why are all women biologically designed to respect the man who puts his purpose above her? She might complain in the moment, but it will turn her on like nothing else.

No matter what she says, your purpose should always come first. If you planned on going to the gym and your girl wants you to stay at home to eat popcorn and watch movies, you should still go to the gym.

You could watch movies until later if you want, but your purpose comes first. The problem with Modern Men is that they are so far removed from their core masculinity that they let girls dictate their actions through.

Status, dominance, abundance, and purpose.

If you combine the four things we have talked about, you will quickly find yourself operating on a different level than most men in life.

Regards for your journey.

Shreyas Raj.