Maybe, just maybe…. our parents holding us back?

Maybe your parents are your obstacle to success.

A very unpopular but true opinion. I hate to say this but again this is the reality.

My parents are average people. My dad works at a IT firm job which pays average salary, my mom does all the upbringing and household work. They always nag me for doing things that are not normal or average.

“An average student should study 5 hours a day to score good!” (Even if I score good with less study!)

“You must do a job like everyone else!”

“An average person is fat, why do you want to go running or participate in a marathon?”

“An average person spends 1/4 th of his life stuck to the screen!”

By these statistics they are trying to tell me that,

“can’t you be a fucking average?”

Look, the media has done a very good job convincing the people that the successful person at the top of the social hierarchy is some god gifted guy, or he was destined to be there because if they say that everyone can be Elon Musk or Andrew Tate then they will not have sufficient drone workers right?

Sometimes there are people who decide to not live an ordinary existence but to live and existence worth living. That is the time when they say, “fuck you destiny, I will create a new destiny which is far different than an average guy!”. That’s when he starts feeling confident and content, and after a few years they are on the top.

Be it Elon or Andrew, they had an extraordinary existence for an extraordinary life.

If you take average advice for average people, can you expect to be anything but average?

Never trust your mind, rather trust the mind of who you want to be.

When we trusted our mind, it has always betrayed us so now can we afford to get betrayed any further.

No!

Now we must not listen to our mind but listen to David Goggins or Andrew Tate. If we were to rise from this swamp of mediocrity, then we must struggle. Also, maybe we can make our parents understand that whatever we are doing is for them! to give them the best life possible.

At cases it may work but at times it may not but yet all that we can do is try.

Again, do what your heart says and be the best version of yourself.