Be So Good that People Call You Privileged.

A Mindset that has helped me throughout my life.

We have all came across some people who are:

Extremely rich (obviously privileged)

Have girls flocking them (Ofc again Privileged)

Have the best Physique,

We are so fast to label them as PRIVILEGED. But the reality is that they WORKED THEIR ASS of for reaching a position.

The person CAN be Genetically gifted with a sexy physique or a Bradd Pitt appearance but if he didn’t put in the work, you won’t be calling him privileged, will you?

Maybe he had millionaire parents but without putting in the work, he could’ve never been rich.

It is actually really awesome when everyone calls you Privileged, as if you were born and are SUPERIOUR than any of them. It is worth the hard work tbh.

But is it really privilege? were they born with it? Fuck no — they earned all of it.

At a certain point you are so far off ahead that people accuse you for cheating!

Look but again that’s genuine, that's human nature. It is a way for our brain to tell us that,

You will never be that Rich, (even though you can if you work hard enough)

or

You will never have bitches flocking you, (Unless you spend days making your life better)

or

You can never get THAT good physique. (unless you spend years in gym)

You don’t even bother to know their journey, for you rather accept to live in denial.

I was like you, living in denial of the actual facts and realities. I’m also telling you all this, so you don’t look at people who are ahead of you and dismiss the hard work they had to put in to get there.

When you tell yourself, “That guy is so lucky”, what you’re doing is taking away your own agency, and giving yourself an excuse not to do what he has done. “He’s so lucky” is a cop-out so you don’t have to get off your ass and change your life.

Well guess what, fucker? That guy who’s “so lucky” isn’t any different from you.

He’s not any more special than you are, he’s not any more disciplined than you are (well, at least he wasn’t when he started), and he’s not more “deserving” than you are.

He just put in the effort over a long enough period of time to get where he is now.

It’s just hard to accept it (ik) but acceptance is the first step towards sucess.

Again you are left with two Difficult options.

Live your life like a sucker, good at nothing but the first to give dogshit advice and taunt others,

OR

Live life like a FUCKING GOD!

the choice is yours,

Pain is far better than regret.

Love you all.