Why you suck at texting girls.

 

A guide to help get dates and girls via text. No BS

So, I’ve had these questions where they ask why the girl, stop texting or responding to them after a while or starts to answer in a short manner (answering with abbreviations). My answer to it (as I control my laughter) is “you don’t know the right way to do it!”.

First let’s look at the common problems.

Boys start “text” simping.

It’s like simping, but on a virtual format (because you’re too afraid to talk to her). You are waiting for that one message she may send you. You respond as quickly as possible too. Such a NICE GUY!

STORY:

man, I would share an incident with you’ll, my friend used to literally write “Sorry”, to girls if she sent him a message and he couldn’t reply to her in time.

Example

2 pm: she sent “hi.”

4pm: he saw that text and replied “oh yeah hi, sorry I was busy, I didn’t see your message! (Cute face emoji) btw what you are doing?”

For a while he was text simping random Insta girls and honestly, it was not pleasant at all!

Learn from his mistakes and don’t waste your time doing this shit.

Your questions are boring.

You — “what you doing”

She — “TV”

You — oh nice, what you watching?

She — (doesn’t reply)

(After 10 mins)

You — You there?

You- heyy!?

Now the question is why she didn’t reply, simply because your questions were boring, you as a person is boring.

It’s one of the biggest mistakes which burns down your conversation with a girl like the one above.

you might’ve had multiple incidents where this happened, and I used to cope by saying to myself, “she must be busy, yk exams are around the corner!”,

bro Really?

Just admit you’re a useless person and work on it.

You use emojis.

(This is one of the worst ways to reply to a girl’s text, believe me!)

Bro they are soooo cringe. Why you need to express yourself; can’t you stay a bit mysterious. I just feel that all that shit is just for Dorks and losers.

No one gives a shit about how you feel, so don’t let the people know how you feel.

“Oh, let me find the happy face emoji and send that to her so that she understands how I feel, Hehe”, if this is you then don’t talk to me.

Be short and precise and don’t waste yours as well as their time by sending emoji, unless you’re a 5-year-old boy!

You write big old book summaries while texting.

Example:

(This is a real text from my friend's phone!)

You-

“Hey, what you are doing. why you didn’t reply to my text? you free this Sunday, let’s meet up at Starbuck at around 3 pm? sounds good? (Justification begins) If you can’t come then we can also reschedule the plan yk. Also, you might wanna change the venue so that’s not a problem too! (Cute face emoji).”

She-

“I’ve plans, sorry.”

I know that of you all, more than half of you text girls with long paragraphs. It’s more like a report or book summary rather than a message.

For a while look at it from a girl’s perspective. How fucking needy and desperate does that sounds? You are justifying yourself in every line of the paragraph trying to seek validation.

Maybe she’ll reply with “K”, or “brb” or “gtg”. Meanwhile you guys think “yes, she replied to me! can’t wait to talk with her again! “

Seriously, what you just wrote proves you are needy as fuck, you might be a low value man, (cause a high value man has work to do), you are a loser, and a coward dog, who can’t talk to girls at their face, so they prefer talking from behind the screen.

you justify your actions or seek validation.

(in the earlier example, there was always an element of justification.

Why are you trying to justify yourself, are you a witness in a courtroom? Why?

It proves you’re not confident about yourself! Lack of confidence is one of the most unattractive traits to people.

No need to justify yourself, she ain’t the only girl on this planet, almost 50% of the population is female, so why you think she is the one? She ain’t special. You know that.

Don’t justify your each and every text. She is as human as you are!

the following were the problems, now let me tell you the solutions.

“Let’s meet up tomorrow at McDonald’s.”

Short and sweet. This also radiates a masculine aura as it shows that you don’t have time to ask her, so instead you command that she has to meet up .

Also remember that you should not care about the reply. If she says “yes” then good, if “no” then well extremely good! Now you have more time to work on yourself.

You are too fast to respond. Be busy.

(Have shit to do!)

Busy = Has purpose = High Value man = More attraction from people.

She messages, you after literally a second.

“Yes, you’re right! “ or, “yeah, she is a bitch” or “you’re the perfect girl!”

Bruv, you got so much time to wait for her messages?

Really?

She ain’t falling for you after this!

It proves you’re purposeless, useless and a waste of space.

Can’t you be busy writing articles, planning business ideas, studying for exams, doing pushups or earning money? A busy man is a high value man! Remember that and you’ll be good for life.

Be flirty.

It can be as easy as a piece of cake, if you’re experienced and as hard a climbing mount Everest if you don’t have any experience. Honestly, just go out there and ask you friends how to flirt, they will surely help you.

Flirting is like showing that you’re attracted to her, but you don’t care about sex or about getting physical.

You’ll only be good at flirting when you have multiple options with you. She is not the only one you have, and you can easily switch her with some other Girl.

Honestly, it’s much easier to flirt while texting than in real life.

Don’t let the conversation burn to the ground! Take the lead.

Be the one controlling the conversation and not the one participating in it.

Case can be where she is the one texting you, and she may ask boring questions. In such case, take the lead and ask her a counter question!

This will keep the conversation hot and spicy!

also try to flirt while conversing so you guys can have a beautiful conversation.

If not done so, you will lose interest after the first message and so will she!

Take the lead confidently and be a MAN!

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