How to not be needy. It is killing your attraction from girls!

 

The characters of this story are all fictional and I made this up so you guys can understand it better.

let the boy’s name be x and the girl’s name be y. Girl y had a huge crush on boy a, he was handsome, charming and good at sports, the perfect Boyfriend. The boy also in contrast developed feelings for the girl and then he decides to confess his feelings. They get into a relationship and also get physical soon after. The catch here is that the boy confessed first, proving that he was desperate for that girl. Likewise, when they got physical, he was the one who did the physical action first which might’ve been a bit creepy indicating he lacked options and she was her only option again proving his neediness. Later the girl loses attraction, and they break up, the boy goes into trauma because she was the first girl that he got physical with, so that meant a lot for him. The end

Moral of the story, never act needy Infront of a potential life partner/girlfriend.

Take it this way, acting needy makes you see creepy because then you either become too cautious with your actions or you just try too hard for that hole like answering right 0.1 seconds after she has sent you a message or buying her stuff she doesn’t deserve. Don’t get me wrong but if she’s not done anything for you then your expensive gifts mean nothing to her. The perfect man is never lusting after a single hole and is mission focused and driven.

I am sure that I have got multiple people who have a crush on me, so I am not starving and needy, if she rejects well, fuck her and move on!

If a man is starving for 14 days, you won’t walk in front of him with a sandwich in your hand, because you know he will use brute force or may become violent to have it, he may even act overly nice with you thinking that you MAY give him the sandwich.

You guys getting my point?

One of the many reasons why men fail at dating or in relationships is the fact they act needy, I used to be one of those until I a girl told me I was being creepy and needy, that struck me with reality.

But if you act totally uninterested then that may also not be attractive, now in this situation you have to find the balance, personally, I act as if I want to get in a relationship, but I am just too busy for it. You can try that or vice versa.