How to know if someone has a crush on you.

I’ll keep it short with not so obvious points.

So, these are some signs I’ve witnessed myself. obviously copying shit from YouTube was easier but some of the are just too exaggerated which I doubt are even real and I don’t clickbait.

(Note: this may apply to both boys and girls, but I have presented this to you from a male perspective)

1. they try to be around you.

They enjoy your company and like to be in your space.

Look, there was this girl who had a crush on me, and I thought that was just a coincidence BUT she always used to sit right beside (not with me) and liked to talk with me. She liked talking to me, she also started following me on various social media platforms. She liked hearing about my endeavors and loved my point of view of the world. My friends would point out that, “bro, she seems to like you!” and I just used to brush it off.

So, if someone wants to be around you more, just keep eyes out. Maybe you’ll get a date.

2. they mention you often in conversations with their friends.

If a girl is into you, she will try to get validation from her girlfriends about you, and you MIGHT hear you name often. Often, she might even tell her friends about you.

I remember being in class, making jokes, laughing and having fun and suddenly I hear my name. It’s just weird at first, I went up to enquire what made them talk about ME! and the whole group just burst out laughing and said “nothing, Nothing.”

I was quite surprised with this sudden popularity gain. (People are talking about me, less go!)

3. they smile at you and closely observe what you are doing.

I was not one of the wittiest or most confident but yeah, I was quite witty and confident, and I would talk to my teachers as if they were my friends, and surprisingly they won’t even mind. I used to crack a lot of jokes during class and my friends and teachers would laugh alike. Then there was this one girl, who would just smile at me, or just observe what I was doing for prolonged periods of time! After class, whenever I asked her why she was looking at me, she gave me totally random answers.

Whenever our eyes met, she used to look away quickly as if she was never staring (which I found cute)!

Sometimes I used to smile back sometimes too, as if to say, “hey what’s up! (With a slight eyebrow raise).” or “I value your efforts (with a smile).”

4.they acts as if they don’t care.

let me explain,

In order to not show their attraction, they might act as if they don’t care about you or say the following lines.

“Well, I don’t actually care that much about you.”

“When do you thought I actually cared about you?”

“I don’t even like you that much”.

They say this to make sure that you don’t think they like you. Reasons could be because they just want more of your attention or maybe they just have huge egos which prevents them from say the truth, which is quite the opposite.

I don’t actually have any experience with this type of indication, but I’ve talked to my friends, and they told me this is also sometimes the case.

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