Go, Talk to her bro! (don’t repeat my mistake!)

 

or have a regret for lifetime.

“Rejection is temporary, but regret is permanent.”

So, this is one of the many teenage insecurities we have as young boys, which even I had!

You know that one time we felt, “damn, she’s cute, maybe I should talk to her.” but we never did? Just sat there thinking “what would happen if I messed up. What if I stutter, what if I misspelled something, ah never mind, she’s way outta my league.”

I just thought of girls to be some kind of angles, like I used to put them on a pedestal. then I used to say to myself multiple times, “she is way outta my league.” or “she ain’t falling for me”. (I am laughing so hard rn!)

I used to think and make up a good script before talking to any girl. I used to go on YouTube and search for “the best Pick up lines to get her fall for you”. (Why the fuck I even do that, I was so dumb!) eventually, I would never actually even talk to her. Maybe because I was insecure, I masturbated too much or because simply I was not confident of myself. I imagined myself to be some 100 kg boy and I saw myself like that!

We are either too afraid to talk to any girl or we’re just planning out a script on what and what not to say. Then we make up some imaginary scenarios where we just mess up and just never talk!

Solution:

The breakthrough of this was, just simply go up to her. Grab your balls and go to her, maybe say “hi” or “how was the test?”. Now you can’t expect to say something so good that she would fall for you in the FIRST TRY! That will never happen, except in movies.

with time you’ll realize, well it’s not as bad as I expected it to be you know.

The skill takes time, and practice. look, even if you mess up, you will realize that it was not even that bad! why the fuck was I so scared! also, she might not even care about it all that much!

Just chill bruv, no need to stress about such small things. She is as human as you are so just chill out. She ain’t the only girl you may ever find!

50% of the human population is female, why you are sticking for that one girl!

She is not SPECIAL! remember that!

Hope you found this helpful.